What are negotiation skills?
As we develop into adults, we learn various combinations of skills to “negotiate” with others to satisfy our basic needs in life. Healthy sex implies negotiating consensual sex for mutual pleasure.
How skilled are you at negotiating the sex you want?
Are you strong in some skills but less so in others? These skills become even more important when it comes to sex and relationships, as both have an impact on our sexual health and emotional wellbeing.
For example, negotiating the type of sex we want, the sexual role we prefer, whether or not to use condoms, the rules for relationships, taking alcohol or using other substances will determine how satisfying the experience will be for both you and your sexual partner.
What are negotiation skills?
The list of skills below isn't exhaustive and depends on the situation you’re in. For example, negotiating sex on online apps will require a different set of skills from negotiating a long-term partnership. Some of the skills include:
How can I develop my negotiation skills?
If you would like help and support in developing negotiation skills, or enhancing those you already have, click the SRP Choices page.
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