In Chapter 4 our men discuss pleasure and sex. Is sex always enjoyable? Does having great chemistry with someone make all the difference? Does sex always have to be romantic? Sex should be pleasurable. That might be because it feels intimate and you know what you and your partners like and don't like, or it might be because you're having sex with a new partner and it's exciting, but it should always enjoyable.

If the sex your having is painful or if it's making you feel regret, upset or just a bit flat afterwards, you can talk to clinic staff about this. We're here to give non-judgemental advice on pretty much every aspect of your sexual health and wellbeing. Click here to find out about all the services Sandyford and Steve Retson Project provide.